Friday, October 23, 2009


It's been a month since my last post. I am noticing that I am not doing much to work towards my goal. I've lost about 5 pounds and that's it. I really need to put some more effort into it.

Anthony has gone from beign the guy who "loves me as I am" to "well, how do YOU feel about it" to "you need to lose weight ashley, period, you're getting fat". I understand where he's coming from. He's now at the "tough love" stage. He says he's tried everything else so this is his most recent approach. Really, I don't think it matters WHAT he says! I'm going to do it for myself, and myself only. I don't want him to be ashamed of me or anything but if it's going to get done, it's because of how I feel, not what he says. I wish he would understand that. Since what he says doesn't do anything except make me feel bad, which of course leaves me grabbing for something to snack on, I wish he would stop saying it!

Well, that's it for now. Just wanted to update you!

1 comment:

  1. Ashley: I totally know what you mean. Why do they have to say it like that and all the time. It may be a little tough love, but let him know that comments like that just draw you back to the food. And he may be a little less tough on you. Keep it up,it's going to take time....give yourself a lot of time. But don't slack, keep up the good work. Think about what your eating and how much your exercising everyday...

    Stay positive, modivated and keep it up. You can do anything.